I am seeing two versions of being vain. The first version is pretty bad for you, and that is when you are vain to other people and being worried about how other people feel and see you at. This kind of vain can make you hate yourself. The second way, the one that I use now, is much better for you. This is when you are vain only for yourself. It isn't about how other people think or see you as. Instead, it is a version of loving yourself. This kind of vain makes you want to do the exercises that, yes, make you sexy, but they also help your mind and your soul. This version of vain is actually pretty good for you!